How to Wear Your Authentic Self: Packing Your Costume
Have you ever felt like you were living life on autopilot, going through the motions day in and day out? I know I have. It wasn’t until I discovered cosplay that I realized how much I was missing out on by not being true to myself. This story will be about how to wear your authentic self, and why it can be challenging but rewarding.
Recently, I had a day filled with adventure and self-discovery thanks to my friend’s plan. We started the day early with a jog, which gave me time to reflect on my personal growth journey. As I debated whether or not to pack my cosplay gear, I realized that every small step I had taken toward personal improvement had given me more confidence to pursue bigger ones. Facing the fear of a cold shower every morning sounds like a small thing, but it is character-building. I decided to pack the cosplay, despite the 10 million fears running through my head.
My Authentic Self is a Cheapo
NIgga we can’t afford anything you want. . .or have
We had breakfast at a local café, I sat there enjoying my banana coconut smoothie and savoring the delicious french toast. As I sat there, I started thinking about ways I could make similar meals at home that were both healthy and cheap. The smoothie was so easy to make, all I needed was a blender. It made me realize that with a little creativity, I could save money and still enjoy the same quality of life. While eating out had its perks, like not having to worry about dishes or cleaning, I knew that making my own meals could be just as rewarding.
We headed to a home improvement store to buy a used bike for one of the members of our group. As we made our way to an onsen (hot spring) in the mountains, I realized how little I knew of the surrounding area. This reminded me of something motivational speaker Jim Rohn said: “You can find adventure just around the corner.” I realized that there was so much to explore and experience in my own backyard.
To Be or Not to Be?
At the onsen, I relaxed and enjoyed myself, despite my sensitive skin. After leaving, I debated whether or not to put on my cosplay. Despite feeling embarrassed by my feminizing behaviors like shaving and doing makeup, I decided to be authentic and wear what made me happy. The reaction I received from my friends was better than expected, and I even made an authentic connection with some hotel staff who complimented me and took photos of and with me.
Later, at a night market, I pushed myself out of my comfort zone by being true to myself and smiling and shaking hands with strangers. Although it was difficult at times, it was worth it to live my truth and be authentic.
How to Wear Your Authentic Self Proudly
I didn’t want to share these photos because of how awkwardly I pose, and how undoubtedly manly I am, there are no filters or proportion editing, also I think my skin spent too long in the onsen. But my coworker said it’s cute and she liked it so I’ll post it.
This day reminded me that every small step toward authenticity and personal growth can lead to bigger steps in the future. By exploring the areas around me, like Jim Rohn said, I can find adventure and discover new things about myself. And by embracing my true self, I can make authentic connections with others and live a life that is fulfilling and true to who I am.
Cosplay may seem like a small thing, but it has taught me so much about myself and has helped me move closer towards my true self. So, what small step can you take today towards authenticity and personal growth?
